Hazel Evans

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  • I was trying to find a dress for my boyfriend recently (before Harry Styles broke the internet). Google searches in several languages gave me only the traditional Arabic thawb and the Quora forum for “Can a man wear a skirt?” Apparently not. Try going to any mainstream online clothing store. Before you see categories like hats and t-shirts and shoes, you will see two categories: Women and Men. Click on Men and you won’t see any skirts or dresses. This is nothing new but, for the record, it’s 2020.

    4 February 2021
  • When I picture these scenes, I don’t picture how it’ll feel for me or what it will look like from my perspective; I picture my own body, my bum cheeks bouncing around, a pair of big male hands around my waist. I am watching my body, not the men. Except it’s not even my body, but some glorified fantasy version of it and it’s not me watching my body, it’s me watching men watching my body.

    4 February 2021
  • We’re also realists, so our vows would probably go something like “I promise to do my best to love you forever,” and we wouldn’t want to jeopardise our sex life by committing to fuck each other and only each other for the rest of our life; that bit would be more like, “and if, at any point during forever, I want to try polyamory, a threesome (or any other -some) or sleeping with someone else for a while, I promise to discuss it with you first and not do it in secret, because I trust that you trust that I love you and you love me and that giving each other space sexually and otherly, if needed, is the only way we can truly love each other as full, complex beings, ‘til death do us part, or even ‘til after when we are reincarnated as octopussies.”

    4 February 2021
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